“In my research, I’ve reframed this in terms of two elements of human connection - frequency and intensity. If you meet someone and feel comfortable then you have a match in frequency or intensity. They determine all personal and professional relationships.”
“We are always mirroring each other because we are wired for connection,” Dr Walker said.
She said these two factors, intensity and frequency, determine why you connect with certain people instantly.
“We all have an orbit of connection, we’ll have had this orbit since we were little. We get intensity and frequency preferences from our family,” Dr Walker said.
“We then go out into the world and look to recreate those family systems. When we find someone who is a match for us in frequency or intensity, we’re going to be drawn to that person like a magnet. That’s what it feels like to be home, that’s what feels like family.”
“The golden rule has always been to treat others the way you would like to be treated. But you need to advance to the platinum rule which is to treat others the way they wish they were treated.”
Helen Politis of Harcourts loved the keynote and the opportunity to network. “It was an amazing event!” She said.
“I learnt a lot that I took back to the office and this morning's meeting was all about frequency and intensity. My team and I look forward to the next event.”
Jessie Hall of Ray White Wilston loved the night, and knew it was important to have her team attend the event.
"When you’re growing a team, you want to get your staff to network with other inspirational women,” she said.
“In our space it's quite competitive, so it's about changing the space and working together and supporting one another instead of competing against each other. I think we all have a lot we can learn from each other as well."